Question 1

Accessories BDSM

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Any items that are somehow related to the topic of BDSM.
 
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Question 2

Age Play

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An erotic role-playing game in which the partners pretend to be "older" or "younger". Most often, people of mature age, prone to submission, take the role of "children", young people who prefer to dominate, portray "senior". It is often one of the components of various role-playing games, for example, in a teacher and a student.
 
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Question 3

Algolagnia

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A way of obtaining pleasure in which orgasm is achieved by causing pain to a sexual partner or in connection with pain caused by a sexual partner.
 
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Question 4

Animal Play

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Animal role-playing games in which one partner plays the role of an animal and the other is the owner or trainer. Most often in games, people are dogs (cats) (Dog Play) or horses (Pony Play). This practice has nothing to do with bestiality.
 
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Question 5

Asphyxia

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Strangulation, an extreme BDSM practice characterized by strangulation of a partner. EXTREMELY DANGEROUS! Can only be performed by an Top with the necessary medical knowledge and experience.
 
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Question 6

Ballbusting

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Torture with the use of blows to the male genitals, squeezing, twisting, pulling, tying them. Characteristic of female dominance.
 
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Question 7

Bastinado

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Beating with various impact devices on the soles of bare feet.
 
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Question 8

Babyplay

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Role play in which one of the partners plays the role of a child. Variety of age games.
 
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Question 9

BDSM

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An ambiguous abbreviation describing the type of sexual relations of the "dominance - submission" type on a voluntary basis. It consists of three main areas, which, as a rule, are combined in different pairs in different proportions: B&D (Bondage&Discipline), D&S (Dominance&Submission), S&M (Sadism&Masochism).
 
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Question 10

BDSM Cage

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A cage made of wood or metal, of the most diverse type and size (usually 1.5x1.5 m). They are used, both in the practices of the BD, as a variant of bondage, and also in the DS, as a punishment for the Bottom. Also used in training and playing with animals. Usually an integral part of the BDSM room.
 
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Question 11

BDSM Culture

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The totality of all components of thematic relationships, based on an erotic exchange of power and other forms of sexual relations, involving role-playing games of domination and submission, sadism, masochism, bondage and discipline, any kind of fetish.
 
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Question 12

BDSM Room

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A room equipped with an appropriate set of BDSM paraphernalia and designed for thematic sessions.
 
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Question 13

BDSM Satanism

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Thematic practices conducted in conjunction with satanic rituals. Often just to create an appropriately dark, intimidating atmosphere for the session.
 
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Question 14

Belting

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Flagellation with a belt or whip.
 
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Question 15

Blood Play

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Impacts in which blood appears on the body of the lower one (when playing with a knife, for example). Usually is Taboo. EXTREMELY DANGEROUS!
 
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Question 16

Body Modification

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The general name for all kinds of changes in the human body. For example, piercing, scarring, tattooing.
 
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Question 17

Bondage

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Sexual practice, which consists in depriving one partner (Top) of another (Bottom) of one or another degree of physical mobility and freedom of action in order to obtain psychosexual and / or aesthetic satisfaction. It is carried out with the help of ropes, belts and bondage devices.
 
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Question 18

Bondage and Discilpine

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Fundamental aspects of BDSM that share conceptual commonalities and are therefore considered together.
 
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Question 19

Bondage Armbinder

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Popular bondage device. It is a wide leather, rubber or latex bag, tapering to the bottom. The sleeve is put on the limbs brought together at the back and tightened with lacing or a zipper.
 
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Question 20

Bottom

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Bottom (bottom, slave, submissive, sub) 
1) In the context of the Theme - a submissive partner, giving himself into the hands of the Master
2) Designation of the role in the BDSM scene - passive or submissive partner.
 
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Question 21

Branding

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The image on the body of the lower certain sign, symbolizing something, for example, belonging to the Theme or the Top by tattooing, scarring, cauterization or in another way.
 
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Question 22

Breathe Control

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Type of erotic games with temporary suffocation of a partner: blocking oxygen with the help of gas masks and special masks, clamping the carotid artery, squeezing the neck with hands or a rope, hanging by the neck, etc. It is believed that the lack of oxygen in the brain increases the sexual pleasure of BDSM exposure. Indeed, the lack of blood and oxygen can cause some hallucinations. A very limited proportion of people are able to experience orgasm only with the use of breath control.
 
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Question 23

Chemical Influence

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A group of actions based on the external use of skin-irritating chemical compounds that are contained in food products. Used - salt, pepper, soda, vinegar, mustard, ginger, carbonated drinks, etc.
 
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Question 24

Canning

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Flagellation with a cane, stick.
 
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Question 25

CBT, Cock and Ball Torture

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CBT is also understood as a class of devices united by the common name "chastity belts", as well as various games with the genitals associated with the use of these belts, which prevent sexual intercourse and masturbation.
 
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Question 26

Chair BDSM

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Structurally, it is an ordinary chair with fixators for the arms and legs of the partner being bound (sometimes also the torso and / or neck). Like crosses, most often made of wood, it can be sheathed with leather or leatherette. In some cases (especially in the field of medical fetishism), a gynecological chair is used.
 
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Question 27

Chastity Belt

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A special device worn on the genitals of men and women to prevent sexual intercourse (fundamentally different designs for different sexes). It looks quite original, unusual and erotic device.
 
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Question 28

Collar

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1) a device in the form of a round ring made of metal, leather, plastic, worn around the Bottom's neck and equipped with a lock. It is used for tying, attaching it to something, as an element of a prefabricated set of bondage for the body (for example, bondage consisting of handcuffs, shackles and a collar interconnected by chains), as a control element for the lower one (the Top one can pull the Bottom one by the leash of the collar, walk him)
2) Attribute of the power of the Top over the lower. It is often used in lifestyle, as a symbol of the belonging of a slave to her master, or during a thematic session, as if emphasizing that the girl is a slave of the Master.
 
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Question 29

Cosplay

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BDSM play with a variety of costumes and roles. For example, the game of the sultan and the concubine - respectively, a girl in an oriental costume, a man in a sultan's costume.
 
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Question 30

Deep Throat

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A variant of oral sex, when the penis is inserted into the partner's mouth and throat to the full length, without causing vomiting. Usually used in games with forced sex.
 
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Question 31

Depersonalisation

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BDSM is a practice aimed at turning a person into a weak-willed slave, an inanimate object, for example, into a footstool, a table, or into an animal.
 
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Question 32

Dippoldism

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1) A kind of sadism, characterized by abuse by teachers and educators of their official position and bullying of students
2) Sadomaso plays in which one of the partners plays the role of a teacher and the other is a student
 
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Question 33

Domination and Submission

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A controversial term that, as it were, replaces the term BDSM. After all, the topic usually always has dominance and submission. Therefore, its interpretation has departed from the original exact translation and in a general sense means the transfer of power. Those. it is a set of different behaviors, customs and practices related to the transfer of power over one partner to another in an erotic, session or lifestyle context. The emphasis in this type of relationship is more on psychological dominance and discipline.
 
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Question 34

Domination

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Managing a partner, using power over him.
 
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Question 35

Discipline

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1) Certain restrictions in the behavior of the lower partner due to the observance of the rules established by the Top partner. Usually, non-compliance or poor compliance with the rules entails penalties.
2) Common name of games D/S
 
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Question 36

Dominant

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Subjugating (morally and/or physically) his session partner. Usually characteristic of D/S relationships. Sometimes the word is used to denote the character of a person - dominant, alpha male.
 
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Question 37

Domina

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Dominant woman. Another name is Mistress. There is an abbreviation - "Domme."
 
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Question 38

Domspace

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An unusual state experienced by a dominant partner during a BDSM scene, described as transcendental.
 
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Question 39

Edge Play

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EXTREMELY DANGEROUS! direction in the Theme, which consists in the absence of the limits of the physical power of the Top over the submissive partner (with his consent), which provokes the Upper partner to risky experiments and dangerous practices. Also, extreme games include games with breathing, games with a knife and blood - one of the more dangerous practices.
 
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Question 40

Electro Play

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BDSM practice with the use of electric shock that is safe for the body. As a rule, such an impact causes pleasure or excitement in a partner. In our country, one should not resort to this method, since it is difficult to purchase devices specially designed for this.
 
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Question 41

Female Domination

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BDSM games where a woman acts as an Top partner (Domina, Dominatrix).
 
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Question 42

Fire Play

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The use of open flames from torches, candles, torches, lighters, etc. during the “action” is a rather rare and exotic type of SM practice due to the presence of a certain risk of injury and subconscious fear. Requires special precautions and high individual tolerance of the Bottom partner. EXTREMELY DANGEROUS!
 
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Question 43

Facesitting

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Sitting of the Top partner on the face of the Bottom, usually in conjunction with oral sex. The practice is typical for women against men.
 
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Question 44

Fetish

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1) Erotic attraction to any objects, materials, body parts, etc., not directly related to sexual intercourse. Common BDSM fetishes include: shoe fetish, leather fetish
2) getting sexual arousal and pleasure from some object or some part of the body that is not directly erogenous. For example, foot fetishism, medical fetishism
 
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Question 45

Fisting

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The introduction of the hand, any object into the vagina or anus of the partner. There is also double fisting in BDSM, when objects are introduced simultaneously into the anus and vagina.
 
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Question 46

Flagellation

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1) The act of flogging a partner with his prior consent using a whip, rod and other shock devices
2) A kind of masochism - the occurrence of sexual arousal during spanking. It can be active (pleasure in spanking others) and passive (pleasure in one's own pain)
 
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Question 47

Gender play

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Role-playing game associated with the substitution of sexes, one or both partners. Often accompanied by dressing up.
 
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Question 48

Gorean

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Role-playing games based on the Gorean series of short stories by John Norman. In which the emphasis is on D / S and B / D relationships between men and women within a whole civilization.
 
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Question 49

Golden Shower

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Games in which the urine of a partner is a fetish, one of them pisses on the other, or makes her drink.
 
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Question 50

Horse

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A design for fixing a person, a kind of analogue of the "horse" sports equipment. It is used, as a rule, for fixation during flagellation.
 
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Question 51

Harness

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1) A set of belts and rings connected together in the form of a mesh, which is put on the body and adjusted to the size with the help of locks. Usually just a decorative erotic element
2) A set of harness for the face and body in pony play
 
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Question 52

Ice Play

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Almost vanilla practice, in which different parts of the lower body are affected by pieces of ice or drops, splashes of cold water. It is a kind of opposite of playing with wax.
 
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Question 53

Knife Play

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Games with sharp objects (knives, razors, needles). They usually leave light cuts and scratches on the skin. Usually Taboo for most topics. EXTREMELY DANGEROUS!
 
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Question 54

Lifestyle BDSM

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Permanent D / S relations (24 hours a day, 7 days a week), as a rule, entering into them, partners constantly live with each other and run a common household.
 
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Question 55

Masochism

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Obtaining satisfaction from moral, physical impact or pain.
 
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Question 56

Master

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1) A dominant who has a slave at his full disposal (sometimes even on a contract basis)
2) The word is used as the address of a slave to the Master
3) One of the names of the dominant partner is men
 
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Question 57

Medical Fetish

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1) The use of medical paraphernalia (dilators, medical clothing, enemas, heating pads, Wartenberg wheel, etc.)
2) General styling of a BDSM session for some medical manipulations (for example, urological examination, installation of an enema, catheter)
3) A kind of fetish in which sexual satisfaction comes as a result of a role-playing game that reproduces one or another medical practice
 
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Question 58

Mistress

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Those who play a leading role are usually called "Up", "Top", "Master", and those who obey - "bottom", "slave", "sub"
 
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Question 59

Mummyfication

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Swaddling the human body, like mummies. It is performed with bandages, adhesive tape, special cuts of material. A subsection of mummification can be considered bondage using a vacuum bed or a latex bag, when a person is placed in a closed bag and the air is pumped out of it with a vacuum cleaner. A person can only breathe through a tube. Often BDSM mummification is an independent practice, i.e. after the process is completed the person is left alone with his thoughts, desires and fears.

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Question 60

Orgasm Control

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Managing the orgasm of the bottom. For example, the prohibition of obtaining an orgasm, learning to cum on command, the use of chastity belts to restrict access to the genitals. The term is also applicable when using BDSM vibrators.
 
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Question 61

Pagism

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A practice in which a male bottom serves and pleases a domina woman.
 
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Question 62

Paraphilia

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Included in the concept of sexual perversion, when a person experiences sexual attraction to objects, objects, situations or people, attraction to which is not included in the concept of normal sexual attraction, which can cause negative consequences for the objects of desire.
 
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Question 63

Pegging

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A type of heterosexual sex in which a woman, using a dildo or strapon, penetrates a man's anus.
 
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Question 64

Pet Play

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